Anonymous asked:

you are really cool but i feel you let some petty things that people say really get to you. You dont seem to give off any reason for someone to greatly dislike you besides stupid whiny people that target who they deem popular and immediately create some sort of big bad strawman about them. u r cool n funny and light hearted

ahaha i…honestly agree that i let little things get to me. Like honestly i really wish i could let things slide but i have a really bad habit of wanting people to like me or at least not actively hate me

i think some of it also stems from the fact that i…guess i do have some sort of internet ‘status’ and i don’t want that to be the thing that distances me from people or have people think i’m some sort of hideous eater of souls!!!

i dunno i never really have much of a good gauge of what validates stressing over since i never really did have a good handle on stress management when i was growing up

always a hodgepodge of ‘get over it’ and ‘ignore it’  and never any real guidance on how to actually manage stress 

which is really funny since i wrote an entire paper on stress management in my sophomore year of college honnnnnkkkk